Kink & Intimacy Skills

For sex-positive communities, kink practitioners, and alternative relationship explorers.

These classes blend somatic awareness, pleasure activism, and practical tools for safer, hotter, and more intentional play.

Workshops

Safewords Are Not a Failsafe

Go beyond the basics — explore why safewords sometimes fail and learn trauma-informed tools for clearer, embodied communication.

Ask a Kinky Healthcare Professional (AMA)

Bring your wildest, weirdest, and most technical questions to an open Q&A with healthcare professionals grounded in sex-positive practice.

Shadow in Polyamory: Naming the Shadows

Bullying, abuse, and harm in metamour relationships are often unseen. This workshop names these shadows and offers tools for awareness, healing, and resilience.

Risking Connection: Setting Intent for Intimacy at Events

Learn how to set intentions, communicate goals, and ethically navigate intimacy in event settings.

Risking Connection, Again: Before We Even Touch

A touch-free, trauma-informed workshop exploring presence, distance, and longing in intimacy without physical contact.

Hotter, Safer Cocksucking

Hands- and mouth-on tips for giving safer, mind-blowing pleasure — with and without barriers. Bonus: ways to make condoms part of the play.

Deepening Your Deepthroat Practice

Bring your favorite toys and props for this guided exploration of deepthroat skills, physiology, and somatic practice.

Aftercare is Not an Afterthought

Go beyond assumptions about aftercare. Learn multiple approaches and strategies to ensure needs are met for everyone involved.

Whose Scene Is It Anyway? Improv Principles for Kink

Apply improv tools to negotiation, mid-scene adjustments, and creative play.

Avian Pet Play, Protocols, and Power Dynamics

Explore bird-inspired roleplay — from falcons to parrots — and the metaphors they offer for kink dynamics.

"Sam provides a safe container for exploration of new ideas, journeys, and career adventures; their vast knowledge of different fields and their lived experience occupying a variety of roles has been a vital model for me of building a life that works for me, and has shown me what is possible when we begin to relate to ourselves without the conditioning of capitalism and white supremacy."